Am I a prisoner or the jailer? (poem)

When I keep blaming a person,
then I keep on being a victim.

When I keep on justifying my anger,
then I keep on being the prisoner.

When I keep wishing he would seek forgiveness,
then I keep on giving him the anchor of my joy.

When I choose to pray for him each time pain resurfaces,
then I feel emancipated by healing him with blessings.

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Aum Tat Sat (God is Truth)